How to win your husband's heart

How to Win Your Husband's Heart 

A Muslim woman who holds fast to Islamic values and principles knows how to win her husband's heart. The followings are of the most important reasons for winning your husband's heart: 

1- Obedience to Allah. 

2- Abstention from sins. 

3- Showing obedience and kindness towards the husband.

4- Cleaning of the house and purity of the wife.

5- Providing an Islamic education for children. 

6- Looking after the husband. 

7- Welcoming the husband with a smile and preparing a good atmosphere for him. 

8- Showing love and respect toward him. 

9- Showing respect toward his family, especially his parents. 

10- Showing good manners and morals toward the husband, because morals are the real beauty. It is really sad to see some Muslim women with no moral values. They raise their voices in front of their husbands and scowl at old people. They are arrogant and disrespectful. Is this the conduct of a Muslim woman? 

Allah says, (those who control their wrath and are forgiving toward mankind; Allah loves the good)  . Also the Prophet - has encouraged us to have moral values; he said: "Kindness is the best character." He also said: "The heaviest thing in the balance of a believer is good character, for Allah hates ill-mannered and the corrupt people." 

The Prophet said: "The most beloved Servants of Allah to Allah are the ones who have the best character and manners." 

The Prophet was asked about the things that makes people enter Paradise most? He said: "The thing which most commonly brings people into Paradise is fear of Allah and good character."

I ask Allah to make this small paper of ample benefit to all Muslims. I feel that I have not done enough to cover this subject from all angles. However, I have done my best, and if I have acted in exactly the right manner, it is only by the Help of Allah; and if I have erred, it is from Satan and myself. Peace and Blessing be upon our Prophet Muhammad.